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How Much Should You Spend?

I'm at the lobby of the Radiology Room now, waiting for my wife to finish her Mamogram. We had a little discussion regarding how much should you spend for your loved one? Especially on a birthday, which is once every year? She had got me thinking. These questions now are running through my mind: 1. How do you define love to your loved one, is it measured by money, or is it measured by your willingness to spend? 2. Should your willingness to spend overrule your rationale for saving money? 3. Am I stingy, if measured by the definition of stinginess according to my wife? My daughter asked me a question, a few minutes before I turned on this laptop, "Papa why don't you want to spend for Kuya?" "Well its not the idea of not wanting to spend..." I answered her. But then I paused, thinking what to say next. Then she continued to answer her question, "Just spend a lot. Because you need to buy cake, balloons, ice cream and everything and spend to make Kuya happy...